maybe it could be that this guys into gagging/bondage and not necessarily choking? in which case, if you're cool with doing this, try suggesting you wear a gag the next time you guys are doing it...this could be brought up playfully/sexily (hey if youre so worried about me being loud wink wink..), and then you eliminate much of the danger aspect (as in, having a handkerchief in your mouth is a lot more comfortable and less likely to actually choke you than a forearm). if he's into this and sees youre receptive to it, maybe he'll feel safer having a conversation with you about it? anyway good luck!
preeeeetty bad. the bedpost bit is funny though.
i think the line between an adulterer and a cheater should be drawn here. in catholic school they taught us that trespassing against the act of marriage was adultery (cuz yeah, i really did go to catholic school, and yeah, that has led to my using the word trespass in a sex column comment). so one is an adulterer if they invade the sanctity of marriage, whether they are the married one or just the "jezebel." but cheating is a different animal, i think. i think cheating is the term that only applies to the partnered one and not the single one. but i wouldn't count on that to hold up in court. or in a catholic school classroom.
neither NOFX or green day is as good as fugazi, radio time aside.
as a teacher at a home school, this made me laugh out loud
amazingly honest; "if we had been men, we would have been the only ones in the bar without ties on" is pretty incredible.