You're misinterpreting the point of the original article, which was that women have a tendency to fuck me who treat them like shit, rather than men who are nice to them (whether the nice guy is genuine or not). Every man just wants to get laid. That's a fact. We can like you as a person as well, but that can't curb our animal instincts of wanting to fuck you. The fact is that true nice guys do all of the "DO" list that you present, but they still never get laid. That is what the article was bemoaning.