I have a really bad gag reflex too! But I was working an event in Orlando a while back and found this thing called Masque Sexual Flavors. It's cool cuz it changes the flavor of semen (I tried chocolate with my boyfriend), but it also has a light minty flavor that made him tingle a bit (which he loved!) and that helped with my gag reflex. It was great! Check it out at yourmasque.com