Ok so .. Super expensive, not very useful, but still very fashionable "gear". That's OK i guess, not useful but OK. I'm missing the whole "Teach me to camp thing".
Welcome to the club.
My dating life improve significantly once I just started a) representing what I am as honestly as possible b) representing my wants and boundaries around those wants as honestly as possible c) doing both of the above with as much flair and fucking humor as possible.
This has started to make things much easier and by all standards, more successful, even on the days where I don't want to put a nice little chocolate glaze over the experience.
So now that you are starting to allow reality to show up in your more intimate and "secretive" corners, you're going to start to do it more often and you're also going to be more aware and conscious of any of the times that you decide NOT to be honest (and frankly, there are times when it's more fun to white lie your way through a night or two, fuck a moral vista.)
Anyway i had a ton of coffee - good article.
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